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What do we do when things don't go our way?


There’s an old poem by Robert Burns that was a favourite of mine when I was boy.
The poem starts with the lines :

Wee, sleeket, cowran, tim’rous beastie, 
O, what a panic’s in thy breastie! 
Thou need na start awa sae hasty, 

The mouse, startled by the farmer, sets itself up into a panic and does what mice do and quickly tries to exit. But the farmer has no plans nor indeed heart to hurt the mouse. After all, the farmer has ploughed up the mouse’s home and left it nowhere to live and with winter coming on!

And in that moment of contemplating the mouse, the farmer reflects on his own life, and how things aren’t quite the way he wants them. Indeed, Burns gives us the famous line:

The best laid schemes o’ Mice an’ Men 
          Gang aft agley, 
An’ lea’e us nought but grief an’ pain, 
          For promis’d joy! 

The mouse, as mice do, will find another spot and build a new house, and be warm for a winter that the farmer clearly is not looking forward to. We don’t know the farmer’s circumstances, but he does tell us life has been tough, as he compares himself with the mouse, and declares the mouse better off. The farmer’s past it seems has been full of “prospects drear” and in looking forward, he can only guess what might happen and fear.

At the end, it’s all pretty bleak. The farmer has let his circumstances crowd out the promise of God. He can’t see beyond his current circumstances. Things just aren’t going right for him. I wonder if he has included God in any of his thoughts. I wonder if God has been allowed into his heart.

The farmer’s statement reminds me of Matthew 6:34, “So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Except the farmer is anxious. He cannot see a future with any hope. He’d rather be the mouse.

However, earlier in Matthew we are told that being anxious does not add a single hour to our lives. (Matt. 6:27) Our “heavenly Father knows” what we need. And if we “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness … all these things will be added to you.” (6:33)

I am left at the end of the Burns poem wondering whether or not the farmer would have shed a different light on things if his trust was fully in the Lord?
Yes, things don’t always go the way you want them to. But isn’t it those things we should also give thanks for because they highlight us those things we have that are right and that He has given us? There are things that Father God has put in place for those who earnestly seek Him, and in these things we see His Love, His providential care.

Whatever problems we face we should face in faith and thankfulness, with our hearts fully open to Him.

Amen.

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